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            <title>Behind The Black Door 6</title>
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            <description><![CDATA[<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">Honesty is something that I never understood in my active addiction. I think it all boiled down to the fact that I had no idea what it meant to be honest, I had never been honest in my life. I lied, cheated, and stole to get what&nbsp;I needed with no regard for anybody else.&nbsp;I think that is why I spent so long in active addiction before coming for to treatment for drugs and alcohol. At the time, I was one of those people that were constitutionally incapable of being honest with myself, let alone other people.&nbsp;I was incapable of differentiating the true from the false because in truth&nbsp;I was delusional.&nbsp;I lived in a fantasy world where I was hurting nobody but myself, where people enjoyed spending time with me, and I had something to offer society and the world.</span></div>
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">In reality, I was delusional. I was a hopeless alcoholic and drug addict that could not put together more than 15 minutes sober. Popping pulls, drinking beers, shooting dope, or blowing coke, it didnt matter...I couldnt stop. It took a bottom for me to realize what was going on and I am forever grateful for that breif momemt of clarity. without it, I dont think I would ever have ended up at Healing properties Halfway House or Delray Beach at all.</span></div>
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">Today, at least I know what I want to be instead of identifying how I do not want to be. I want to be honest, caring, compassionate, faithful, and most of all selfless. God has taken me this far, I think he can handle a character defect or two...</span></div>
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            <pubDate>Thu, 01 Mar 2012 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title>Behind The Black Door 5</title>
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            <description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">Its always sad when people close to us disappear. We have all experienced at some point in life; friends, family, girlfriends, whatever it may be. Unfortunately, in this recovery game it happens more times than anybody would like think. When I first came to Delray Beach for drug and alcohol treatment, I figured people just came to a treatment center, underwent some form of cognitive-behavioral therapy, and out of nowhere....bam...they were healed. Kind of like those cheesy preachers I used to watch on TV all cracked out on the couch.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">What I realized when I came to Healing Properties Halfway House is that this process was going to be a lot more complicated than first anticipated; the old adage, "the more someone knows, the more they begin to realize how little they actually know" has shown to be absolutely true in my life today.</span></p>
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">This past week, someone that played a crucial role in my life today, someone that I went to with a lot of my day to day problem, a person I looked up to and respected, a person that showed me what it meant to actually be of service to other people, disappeared into the abyss of drug and alcohol addiction. Despite the void, what I learned was the true nature of this process and how easy it is to fall back into old patterns when I don't do the things I need to do on a daily basis to stay sober. Whether someone has 4 months, 4 years, or 40 years it doesn't matter. What does matter, is maintaining a relationship with god and seeing that my relationship with him is right.</span></div>
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: tahoma, arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">For that I am grateful.</span></div>
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            <author> tim@healingproperties.org (Tim)</author>
            <pubDate>Thu, 23 Feb 2012 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title>Behind the Black Door 4</title>
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            <description><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">Some times things just suck, there are no if, and, or buts about it. Things just suck. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">When these things come up, people will tell me, "Its all in god's plan" or, "its all for the best." But at the end of the day these things have very little impact on how I am feeling as this is all stuff that I already know. Not just cognitively understand, but things that I have come to internalize and truly believe in. But no matter how many times it is repeated, these AA catchphrases mean nothing to me no matter how much I truly believe them to be true. I want to see, hear, or feel that plan and I want it now!</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">Today, when things just weren't going my way, when I wanted to deck the closest dumb person in the face I found my sponsor and we talked. He agreed that he feels this way at times and has come to find one critical point: it is all about acceptance. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">Baffled, I responded, "I HAVE HEARD THAT ALREADY AND IT DOESN'T HELP!"</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">He continued to explain that it is all about acceptance and in reality, I had no idea what that meant. Acceptance does not mean that everything is rainbows and blow jobs all the time...life is not always going to be prancing through fields of daisies. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">Acceptance is understanding that sometimes things suck, acceptance is understanding that when things suck it is OK.</span></p>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 22:03:12 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title>Behind the Black Door 3</title>
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            <description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">Despite the hundreds of success stories I have heard through my time at Healing Properties and in the rooms of AA, I have heard thousands of fateful, depressing stories of failure. These failures, although not as publicized or discussed, have instilled in me more than the successes ever could. These failure stories continue to scare me, even when things are good in my life. The people that come and go, the people that live and die, the people that are continuously fighting for their lives on a daily basis in pursuit of the utter sense of bliss that drugs and alcohol once brought them truly scares me. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">Although motivating, these stories are a double edged sword in that on one hand they do provide a barometer with which to measure my success but on the other, they at times, torment my pursuit of god, AA, and a sober way of life by showing me how easy it is to fail. Consistently, when things get bad, when my life seems unmanageable, when I feel sad, overworked, and angry I start to remember these stories and the consistent themes that pervade them; Inconsistency in the everyday habits that keep people sober. I begin to think, am I doing something wrong? Is this going to lead me to a drink or a drug? Can’t I just “trudge the road of happy destiny”?</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">And then I remember...</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">Around me I have people that care about me, I have friends, I have health, I have integrity. I am a man of honesty. As longs as I continue to pursue god, the AA way of life, clean my side of the street, and help others all will be well. For that I am grateful.</span></p>
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            <author> tim@healingproperties.org (Tim)</author>
            <pubDate>Mon, 30 Jan 2012 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title>Behind the Black Door 2</title>
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            <description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">When it was first suggested that I go to a Halfway House in Delray Beach, I figured it was a good place to stay sober and meet other sober people with whom I can learn to navigate my newfound life of sobriety. I saw it as a place to go and meet new friends, learn the “tricks of the trade”, and have some grounding with which to sprout some new roots strong enough to hold together the remains of my miserable and out of control lifestyle. But, in the end, Healing Properties Halfway House gave me so much more.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">I have always heard from others, “If you want what someone has, then do what they do,” a phrase which meant nothing to a hopeless alcoholic and drug addict like me. I wanted what others had but under no circumstances was I going to do what they did; to be frank, it was because I had no idea what they had <i>or</i> what they did. Over time, however, I had the opportunity to observe the revolving door of sobriety, the people coming, the people going, and most importantly the people who actually stayed. I soon realized what this phrase actually meant. I saw before me, the growing tree of sobriety, as people with sponsers got sponsees and in turn began watering their own roots of sobriety, exponentially turning the roots that I sought into a blossoming tree. I realized how low I had set the bar for myself, I was satisfied with roots (i.e. an end to my chaotic lifestyle) and neglected to pursue my ultimate blossoming tree (i.e. a life of security, serenity, and happiness). Coming in, and ultimately staying, at Healing Properties Halfway House gave me the opportunity to see the forest and not just the trees.</span></p>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title>Behind the Black Door 1</title>
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            <description><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">This is my first post for Behind the Black Door so I think I will start from my first memory at Healing Properties. After over 6 months of inpatient treatment for drug and alcohol addiction, I decided to take the suggestion of my therapist and continue my treatments in a safe and supporting environment in Delray Beach FL. I chose Healing Properties Halfway House for the location but in reality, when I think back on it, I think Healing Properties chose me.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">At first, being the little kid in a man’s body I have always been, I was scared. I didn’t know these people, I was a long way from home in Delray Beach FL, and to make matters worse it was my first time out of the intensive bubble that is the drug and alcohol treatment facility program. Attending my first house meeting, needless to say, I was nervous... especially after someone told me I would have to sing a song in front a group of about 35 other people my age. Come to think of it, I think petrified would be more appropriate.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">“Hi, I am Philthadelphia, and I am an alcoholic,” I said nervously.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">“Hey Philth...welcome!” replied the group enthusiastically.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">“Tell us about yourself and what Healing Properties Halfway House can do to help you,” asked the house manager.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">“Well, I said hesitantly,” going into the spiel of problems and issues that led me to Healing Properties in the first place, “I’ve always been intimidated by people.”</span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">“Can you guys help Philthadelphia feel more comfortable?” asked the house manager.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">With a resounding, “YES!” I had been officially welcomed into Healing Properties Halfway House. I could feel the energy coming from this odd-ball group of full grown men, tattoos, drug problems and all. What a sight! In an instant, the fear and loneliness subsided and I realized I was home. It was then that I realized, I didn’t chose Healing Properties, Healing Properties chose me.</span></p>
<p style="text-align: justify;"><br /><span style="font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;">~ Written By: Any one of the current tenants of Healing Properties</span></p>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2012 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title>Remembering Our Co-Founder:  George Walker</title>
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            <description><![CDATA[<img style="margin: 10px; float: right;" alt="George_Walker_Delray_Beach_Halfway_House_Small" src="http://healingproperties.org/images/stories/George_Walker_Delray_Beach_Halfway_House_Small.jpg" height="185" width="275" />
<p style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">In the first years of Healing Properties’ inception George teamed up with Tim to formulate the program that Healing Properties follows today.&nbsp; Raised in Harlem, in the 1950’s, George (<i>the more educated of the two</i>) was a National Merit Scholarship winner as he ranked in the (delete top) 96<sup>th</sup> percentile on the SAT.&nbsp; He soon found himself at Wesleyan Collage.&nbsp; With the changing socio-political climate of the late 1960’s in the United States, George found himself involved with a number of conflicting influences.&nbsp; Looking to find solace, George finally made it to Delray Beach.&nbsp; And, that’s where he met Tim.&nbsp; George was instrumental in the rapid growth of Healing Properties, bringing its size from 5 beds to 65 beds in a matter of 2 years.&nbsp; During this time George wanted to perfect his skills for helping people, so he began to obtain his Masters at Barry University, in Miami Shores, Florida.&nbsp; George received his M.S. in Mental Health Counseling (minor – Marriage, Family, Conjoint Therapy); graduated 2007 with Honors (3.95 GPA); NCC – National Certified Counselor; member Chi Sigma Iota (Counseling Honors Society); member American Counseling Association; member Association for Multicultural Counseling and Development.&nbsp;When George decide to continue his education and get his PHD, the workload of the two endeavors, Healing Properties and the PHD, were too much.&nbsp; Tim and George shook hands and parted as the best friends two men could be.&nbsp; George is still persuing his PHD while getting married and having a beautiful bouncing baby boy.&nbsp; (Tim is the god-father…fyi)</span></p>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2011 09:15:59 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title>PEACE!</title>
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            <pubDate>Sat, 26 Feb 2011 10:36:15 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title>First House Meeting at the Renovated Compound</title>
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            <description><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">We had our first house meeting at the new compound today.</span></p>
<p><img alt="Delray Beach Halfway House" src="http://healingproperties.org/images/stories/P1010202_Small.jpg" width="401" height="267" /></p>
<p><span style="font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;"><img alt="Delray Beach Halfway House" src="http://healingproperties.org/images/stories/P1010209_Small.jpg" width="401" height="267" /></span></p>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Mon, 21 Feb 2011 10:48:04 GMT</pubDate>
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            <title>New Renovations</title>
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            <description><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">The new renovations are almost complete!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;">Woo Hoo!!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;"><img alt="Delray Beach Halfway House" src="http://healingproperties.org/images/stories/P1010134_Small.jpg" width="428" height="285" /></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family: tahoma,arial,helvetica,sans-serif; font-size: 10pt;"><img alt="Delay Beach Halfway House" src="http://healingproperties.org/images/stories/P1010153_small.jpg" width="428" height="285" /></span></p>]]></description>
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            <pubDate>Fri, 18 Feb 2011 20:47:23 GMT</pubDate>
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